My dad and I went to the laundromat to do our clothes and generally don't mind doing this because it's usually just me and dad. Today, there was a lady with a six year old and I'm telling you, I've never had it more cemented in stone that my babymaker is on lockdown.
Between renditions of "Hut 2, 1-2-3-4" and "Mommy, mommy, mommy," I was ready to smack the shit out of him. He was a holy terror: stealing our carts, in our faces, underfoot, nonstop chatter which wasn't helped by his mother calling him 'bubba' and 'baby' whenever he was constantly shouting for her attention. And Dad and I learned a little bit of unwelcome information about his age -- "Oh, how old are you? Six? And you're in the first grade, while your brother is 9 and in the second grade." -- yeah, thanks alot lady. You didn't have to tell me that because I'm never A] going to see you again or B] identify your/your kids bodies at the morgue C} or all of the above. So it was HIGHLY unnecessary.
However, I do appreciate you reminding me just why I will never, ever be having kids.
- Music:Kim Wilde - Kids In America | Powered by Last.fm
I work at a learning clinic where I tutor kids, and in the early session I have a group of kids in the 3rd-5th grade range (I think that's 9-12ish range age wise?). What I'm looking for are some computer games that are age appropriate for that group. It would be a huge plus if it was fun to play for myself, too. :P (I get addicted to stuff like Snood and Sally's Spa xD) It doesn't have to be educational, though that is a plus. We don't have a wireless connection at the clinic (I'd be bringing my other laptop for them to play on), so I can't play on any websites or anything that requires I be online.
Any suggestions are welcome! Thanks~
I was reminded of a conversation I had at work a couple of weeks ago today. I get it - we were ALL exhausted. The end of a semester is tiring for everyone involved. Students (myself included) are at the ends of their tempers: they whine, they bitch, they complain, and since we work at the circulation desk of the university library, a lot of that unpleasantness falls on us. Totally understood.
But when you go "God I'm so tired" and I say "yeah, I know what you mean, I can't wait for the break", turning to me and saying, "You don't have kids, so you don't even know what tiredness is! I have to get up at [x time] and get them ready for school and blah blah blah...", it just pisses me off.
I mean, I'm a university student with six classes, all of which had an essay due at the same time, followed by the exams. I don't stand there going "well YOU don't know what stress is". Why can't you just be happy with the fact that we're both tired? Why do you have to turn it into some weird kind of "I suffer more than you because I have kids" contest?
God parents piss me off sometimes.
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That said...my Mom has the Baby Rabies. She desperately wants grandchildren and is about as subtle as Ayn Rand in her demands for me to breed. Despite my repeated assertions that i cannot have healthy children and wouldn't want them if i could. She gives me the usual litany of, "Oh, it's different when they're yours," and "You're not a real woman til you've had a baby," etc.
She has even gone so far as to offer to adopt and raise any spawn i may produce. (But, for some reason, when i suggest she foster/adopt an existing child who badly needs it, she tells me i'm being "ridiculous" and "selfish.") It's not that i hate kids-i have two nephews and a pile of baby cousins, whom i love dearly and spoil as much as possible-it's just that i don't see the need to reproduce, at great personal risk, just to satisfy some ludicrous notion of femininity.
That being said--my Mom, for Christmas this year, gave me maternity clothes. Because of course i was just waiting for the right apparel to change my mind.
This is not the most insane thing she's done in her quest for grandchildren, oh no. Last year we were chatting on the phone & she came out with, "Oh, i can't believe i didn't think to save some of your (dead) brother's sperm!! You could have HIS baby!"
So, you know. i'm glad this community exists.
- Location:Chicago, IL, USA
http://www.feministing.com/archives/019
"The blogger at Everysaturdaymorning, a pro-choice clinic escort in Louisville, KY, has posted pictures and video of the latest disgusting tactic from the antis outside their clinic: wearing fake escort vests.
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"To get a sense of what the brave pro-choice clinic escorts are dealing with in Louisville, check out the the video and transcript of an anti verbally harassing a patient after the jump. A warning that it may be triggering, especially to anyone who's not used to hearing this rhetoric."
Video:
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Link to original blog: http://everysaturdaymorning.wordpress.c
Transcript of video, cut because of the trigger warning:
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Fools.
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http://www.knitty.com/ISSUEspring09/PAT
Note- I am properly twisting the yarns when I switch colors, so the holes aren't from that.
http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/lib
The pattern calls for a circular size 10 and then some size 9 DPNs. I don't know if I'm crazy or what, but I've read and reread the pattern a zillion times and can't find anywhere where she wants knitters to switch to the size 9s. You start off the rib brim with the size 10. I know that sometimes you switch to the smaller size after the ribbed brim, but then again sometimes it's with the hat decrease. She doesn't say anywhere, unless I'm blind as a bat (are they really blind?) and I've written her on Ravelry and at her yarn store and haven't gotten an answer. I want to start this thing! So what's your guess, knitters? Switch to size 9 after the initial ribbing and when the stockinette starts? Or switch once the decrease starts? Or don't bother, and knit the whole damn thing with the size 10? Inquiring minds want to know. ;)
And thanks in advance!
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TIA
I was browsing the classifieds of a local news group (it is more popular than Craigslist in Utah)and this is what I found.
( Wild Caught Pigeons )
Can I report this to some ONE? Animal cruelty is a felony in Utah....
In consequence, I knew I would have to wind it into balls and I was able to try out this nifty little design I came across a few months ago.( pic behind cut )
How often do problems occur with the Xbox 360? I've heard of discs being scratched, overheating, red ring of death etc. Is there anything I could do to ensure that these problems don't happen? I've heard NOT having Xbox 360 standing vertical will stop discs being scratched - is that true?
Has anyone had problems with their Xbox 360? And do you think it would be worth buying one? (I'd be getting an Elite and the price for one at the moment is $449 although I might wait and see if the price drops).
I already have a PS3 and a Wii. I want the Xbox 360 because there are a few exclusive games I want to play (mainly Fable 2). I was told that I could get a gaming PC instead of an Xbox 360 because most games are on PC as well but that it would cost around $1500 for a decent one... and I don't want to pay that much :(

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yesterday, of a "vet" giving out information on sugar gliders. I couldn't even listen to to the entire thing without getting steamed! I am part of a small pet rescue and we have had MANY sugar gliders given up over the years. Many that are injured ,ill, malnourished and unsocialized. He gets right into calling rescues false and continues to bash them!
The cage behind him is way to small for even one sugar glider but that is what he recommends. He also says it is okay for sugar gliders to be alone as long as they get attention from a person. Which is very bad! The company of a fellow sugar glider cannot be replaced by a person. His diet recomendations are bad... it's all BAD!
He is funded and supports the leading Sugar glider Mill of the US, Perfect Pocket Pets. Their tactics and information are just as false and smiliar to what this vet says.
I have to wonder if he really is a vet. If so, what true vet would support a mill breeder? Give out such awful advice? And bash rescues? I also wonder if all the "clients" are imaginary.
All comments submitted are screened and only good ones are put up on the web site.
What are your thoughts on this? Any info? I fear people buying into all the crap he says!
In any case... a little community relevant Fail appeared at Failblog.
http://failblog.org/2010/01/06/field-tr
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I've complained about my mom before here. I've never really wanted children ever since I was a teen, but my mom had the tendency to "prime" me by bingo-ing me every chance she got. "Oh, you'll change your mind!" "Well, you'll find the right person..." "Well, when you have children..."
In my later years (when my cf choice solidified), I avoided talking to my mother about my choices because of her previous attitude. I didn't feel like I could open up to her. She's not a bad person, but I never counted on her for support. She was just way too traditional in general. However, she's finally changed.
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Just saying, people CAN change, and there IS some hope. Don't give up on people completely :).
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My 360 controller won't sync. I've tried replacing the batteries and everything. Then I noticed, the front of my console won't light up. It turns on and runs, but no green led lights. I am kind of freaking out. Does anyone know what I can do? I got this as a Christmas present so its going to suck if I have to send it into microsoft this soon.
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